The Power of Routine

Whether you’re a busy parent trying to get the kids out the door in the morning, or an adult juggling work, home, and personal commitments, one thing is clear: life runs smoother when there’s a routine.

I’ve experienced in both a personal and work capacity how structure and predictability aren’t just time management tools – they’re powerful supports for emotional regulation, focus, and overall wellbeing.

Keep reading to learn more…

Why Routine Matters for the Brain

Our brains love patterns. Predictable routines reduce the amount of decision-making we have to do each day, freeing up mental energy for learning, problem-solving, and creativity. For children, routines provide a sense of safety and stability. For adults, they reduce stress, build healthy habits, and help maintain balance during busy or challenging times.

Routine and Regulation – What’s the Connection?

Regulation is our ability to manage emotions, energy, and attention so we can engage effectively in daily activities.When we know what to expect next, our nervous system can stay calmer and more focused, which means:

• Fewer meltdowns in kids (and fewer frazzled parents!)

• Improved concentration and productivity in adults

• Better sleep patterns for all ages

• More time and space for enjoyable activities

  
  

The Power of Routine for Children

Children thrive on predictability. Routines help them feel secure, understand expectations, and develop independence.Examples include:

• Morning checklists (get dressed, brush teeth, pack bag)

• Consistent mealtimes

• Predictable bedtime rituals (bath, story, lights out)

• Weekly patterns (library day, sports day, playdate day)

  
  

These consistent patterns reduce anxiety and help children transition smoothly between activities.

The Power of Routine for Adults

Routines aren’t just for kids – adults benefit just as much, especially when life feels overwhelming.Some powerful adult routines include:

• Starting the day with the same morning ritual (exercise, coffee, reading)

• Scheduled work breaks and lunch times

• Setting a consistent bedtime and wake-up time

• Weekly planning sessions to reduce last-minute stress

A stable routine can act as a buffer during stressful periods, giving you a foundation to return to when things feel uncertain.

Occupational Therapy Strategies to Build Routine

• Start Small – Introduce one or two key routines before adding more.

• Visual Schedules – Use charts, checklists, or calendars for children and adults who benefit from visual cues.

• Consistent Cues – Pair routines with sensory or environmental cues (e.g., soft music before bed, morning sunlight for waking).

• Flexibility Matters – Routines should guide, not control; leave room for life’s surprises.

• Involve the Whole Family – Encourage everyone to contribute ideas for routines so they feel invested.

  
  

Final Thoughts

Structure isn’t about being rigid – it’s about creating a predictable rhythm that supports emotional balance, focus, and wellbeing.

For kids, it’s a safety net. For adults, it’s a stabilising anchor. For both, it’s a tool for living with more ease and less stress.

If you’d like support in creating personalised routines that work for your family or yourself, an occupational therapy consultation can help you design systems that are practical, sustainable, and tailored to your needs.

Feeling like you would like more support in this area? Feel free to get in touch.

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About the Author: Carla is the Founder and Director of The OT Guru, an occupational therapy practice dedicated to helping individuals of all ages live with greater independence, confidence, and purpose. With over 7 years of experience working across paediatrics, mental health, and disability services, Carla is passionate about translating evidence-based therapy into real-world outcomes.

She leads a team of like-minded therapists who believe in compassionate care, empowering families, and supporting people through every season of life. When she's not with clients, you’ll find her brainstorming with the team, spending time with her family or sipping coffee with a notebook full of new ideas.